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It’s that lime green sweater your mother in law gave you this Christmas. It’s the wedding gift you have not opened after 30 years of marriage. It’s the purple purse your husband purchased for your birthday. For those awful items, do you use it, display it or regift<\/a> it? It’s all these gifts that keep you wondering what to do when gifts have been given in the true spirit of giving. How do we graciously and gratefully accept gifts,especially if it’s a matter of “what were they thinking”?<\/p>\n

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Authentic gratitude<\/h3>\n

Be sure we have been graciously grateful<\/a> .\u00a0 A hug, thoughtful note, email or phone call can be the best way to be sure you have shared with the giver your appreciation.<\/p>\n

Letting go<\/h3>\n

It’s a matter of time. Some gifts can be easily given away as donations to charity. There can be returns to the store with a receipt. Little by little you can start to let go of stuff.<\/a> There is no dishonor in not keeping a gift as long as your gratitude has been conveyed.<\/p>\n

Keeping gifts<\/h3>\n

There are many reasons to keep the most unwanted gifts. Gifts given can be harder to let go of if the family member is deceased. Clients of mine have chosen to keep gifts as keepsakes long after the function and value of the gift has declined. An item can bring a smile to your face or a warm memory. When you find an item that is especially meaningful, be sure to keep it in a place you honor it.<\/p>\n

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Setting the expectation<\/h3>\n

Communicate what’s really important to you as you approach a birthday, big event or holiday. It’s not easy to do. Some people will still want to share gifts. Be authentic to who you are about stuff. Be authentic about your gratitude about the gift and why you are not accepting gifts. It’s not an easy conversation and it can start with a gracious thank you first to ensure that the giver knows how much you appreciate the thoughtfulness.<\/p>\n

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It’s a perspective of practicality, functionality and sentimentality. Give yourself permission to do what is best for you keeping in mind gratitude and gracious living.\u00a0 In the case of “what were they thinking?”, think about the big picture and gratitude.<\/p>\n

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