Common Travel Fails for People with ADHD (and Solutions to Fix Them)
Traveling with ADHD can be a thrilling adventure or a bit chaotic if you’re not prepared. The excitement and stimulation of new places and interesting spots can clash with ADHD challenges like weak working memory, emotional regulation, time blindness, and decision fatigue. Here are some real-life travel fails that often happen to people with ADHD and a few quick tips to dodge them.
1. Forgetting Important Documents
Fail: Leaving your passport or ID at home… or worse, losing it mid-trip.
Fix: Keep important documents in a brightly colored pouch and triple-check before leaving. Keep this pouch in the middle section of your carry on so you know exactly where to find this.
2. Overpacking Random Stuff, Underpacking Essentials
Fail: Ten books and no socks.
Fix: Pack by a context that works for you. That might be by category, not item—outfits, toiletries, tech, paperwork.
3. Missing Flights or Trains
Fail: Thinking you had plenty of time and realizing you don’t.
Fix: Apply time assessments backward to set a departure time for the airport or train station. Double the time that you think it takes to travel.
4. Losing Track of Reservations
Fail: Showing up at the wrong hotel—or forgetting you booked two hotels.
Fix: Consolidate your information. Use a single app or document to track every reservation (Google Docs, TripIt, or even a simple Notes app).
5. Last-Minute Panic Packing
Fail: Stuffing random things into a suitcase at 2 am and forgetting medication, chargers, or underwear.
Fix: Set your suitcase out a week ahead of time. Start a “staging area” a few days before the trip where you collect items as you remember them.
6. Underestimating How Long Tasks Take
Fail: Thinking you can pack, clean, and get to the airport in an hour. Here’s the reality of this. You can’t.
Fix: Double (or triple) your estimated time for tasks when preparing to leave.
7. Decision Fatigue Mid-Trip
Fail: Getting totally overwhelmed when you have to choose a restaurant, tour, or bus route from the many choices available.
Fix: Limit choices by having 2-3 flexible options each day so you don’t have to make too many on-the-spot decisions.
8. Forgetting to Check Local Details
Fail: Arriving in a different time zone, country, or climate totally unprepared.
Fix: Set multiple reminders to research local weather, currency, plugs, and customs before packing. Download city and tour apps to easily find information.
9. Over-scheduling and Exhaustion
Fail: Book tours, dinners, and shows back-to-back until you collapse from exhaustion.
Fix: Give yourself alternating days of well-scheduled and free time during your travel. Plan a few low-key evenings with earlier bedtimes to get sufficient rest.
10. Meltdowns Over Forgotten Items
Fail: Realizing you forgot something important and it spirals into a shame storm.
Fix: Remember that most items can be purchased that are necessities. Build “forgiveness” into your plan. You’re doing your best and you are on vacation.
Think about your travel as an opportunity to stretch your personal strengths and all the ways you are creating new memories no matter the glitches.